The Beatdown of A Fanatic Heart
The rumor
Previously a rumor started to float around about Tom dating Lizzy Olsen, just like before with Jessica Chastain, Hayley Atwell and Kate Dennings. And the same beatdown was known as he went to a tennis match with Producer Jane Arthy.
Girls and Boys went riot - without hesistation on the truth on these 'rumors' and it keeps going nuts even though he himself said that he will (if the other party is alright with it) tell us about it - but of cause only if there is something 'to write home about' - meaning if he starts to actually live with his girl - he´ll come around. And we all know that he couldn´t go anywhere without anyone noticing it - they even got him in Bora Bora and in a small town in Island. We´ll know.
The Shaming
It is totally fine to get shaken up by those rumors, it´s fine, cry, scream, post about your feelings to your hearts content, but be fair to the girl or guy - it is what it is. Just like you´d fall for a guy in real life who just fell in love with someone else.
Don´t shame other Fans because of their feelings. Just don´t.
But you´re also free to do what ever the hell you want - but refrain from hurting others. Don´t write hate posts to the girl or Tom. It won´t help. Nope.
But you can help yourself a bit, remind yourself that he´ll get a girlfriend, he´ll most likely marry and he also wants kids. Imagine his happy shining eyes holding his first baby. Looking with love and watering eyes to his woman.
And now imagine him alone in his bedroom, walking into the empty livingroom - alone. Nobody is there. He is only focusing on the next Job to fill his feeling of emtpyness. But no matter how hard he works he just can´t fill this hole inside him. And he looks around in this cold room searching for something he can´t reach ... Can you see him ?
What would you wish him ? I don´t know if he is going to marry or even have kids but there is only one future I wish for him. Joy and Love. And someone to wrap their arms around him when he feels miserable and hurt.