No, you don´t know me...!

So there is this bitching going around like "Oh How could he say that?!"

So there were two girls he said that to : 1. Said she loved him - as nice as it is, Tom isn´t overly confident with himself, it´s like he is saying you love me? But why? You don´t know me - if you did you wouldn´t say that!

And being told he is perfect - he said the same. Just imagine yourself in his shoes, when you get a compliment like that you say oh thanks how nice of you - but the thing is - you don´t take it for the truth. He thinks of himself as 'alright' - even the cause of his astonishing dance moves is he thought his mate's looked so good compared to him he had to come up with something.

Most of the time he takes compliments as a joke - and he laughs it off. Like there are so many beautiful people on this planet - Why me?

And for him love isn´t happening on the first sight. It comes with time. While you get to know another persons flaws and little gestures.

What I´m trying to say is - there was no intention of him to hurt someone, he is human. He just can´t see how awesome and outstanding he truely is. So when you approach him - say you loved his performance, the character, that he moved you to tears, how connected he made you feel about the play or Film ... it will give you one of his beautiful warm smiles - and what more can you hope for!